Why It's Not OK To Call People Your "Gays" — buzzfeed.com

We’ve all been there. All of your besties are out to brunch. The conversation is light and funny. Careers! Dating! Adulthood! You’re all yapping away when the subject turns to your buddy Lars, who happens to be gay. Lars is an awesome dude. Lars is one of your best friends. Lars is the fucking best. Sure, it sounds cute at first — “My gays.” It doesn’t even sound malicious. You’re just showing the world how accepting you are because you have a gay BFF.

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